In the UK nearly 12 men lose their lives to suicide every SINGLE day

3 timeS more men in the UK die by suicide THAN women

NEVER IGNORE THE SIGNS

RECOGNISE IT.

77% of men have suffered with common mental health symptoms like anxiety, stress or depression.

Common signs include:

  • Anger, irritability, or aggressiveness

  • Noticeable changes in mood, energy level, or appetite

  • Difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much

  • Difficulty concentrating, feeling restless, or on edge

  • Increased worry or feeling stressed

  • Misuse of alcohol, drugs, or both

  • Persistent sadness or feelings of hopelessness

  • Feeling flat or having trouble feeling positive emotions

  • Engaging in high-risk activities

  • Aches, headaches, or digestive problems without a clear cause

  • Obsessive thinking or compulsive behavior

  • Thoughts or behaviors that interfere with work, family, or social life

  • Unusual thinking or behaviors that concern other people

  • Thoughts of death or suicide or suicide attempts

Extracted from the MMH website

NEVER BE AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT IT

SPEAK ABOUT IT.

40% of men have never spoken to anyone about their mental health.

It can sometimes be really difficult to talk about your feelings with friends or family. It's common to feel worried about upsetting people you care about, and feel nervous about what people will think, or how it might affect your relationships.

You may feel more comfortable opening up to friends or family than professionals, or you may find it easier to approach a professional (such as your doctor) first. There's no right or wrong way round. But the people closest to us can often be a valuable source of support.

Whenever you feel ready, these tips might help you start the conversation:

  • Find a method of communication that feels right for you. This might be a face-to-face conversation, or you might find it easier to talk on the phone or write down how you feel in a letter.

  • Find a suitable time and place. There may not be a 'good' time, but it can help if you're somewhere quiet and comfortable, and are unlikely to be disturbed for a while.

  • Practice what you want to say. You could do this in your head or make some notes. Phrases such as "I've not been feeling like myself lately" or "I'm finding it hard to cope at the moment" might provide a starting point.

  • Offer them relevant information and examples. If you've found a useful description in a book or online, or seen someone on television or in a film saying something that feels right to you, you could use this to help explain what you're experiencing.

  • Be honest and open. It can sometimes feel uncomfortable sharing something so personal, but explaining how your feelings are affecting your life may help others to understand.

  • Suggest things they could do to help. This might just be listening and offering emotional support – or there may be practical help you need

  • Don't expect too much from one conversation. Understanding mental health problems can take time, and some people may be shocked or react badly at first. It's important to give them some time to process what you've told them. But if possible, plan to come back to the conversation with them again, to give you more opportunities to explain what you're going through.

Extracted from the MIND website

CONNECT.

There are so many ways to get the support you need both online and in person.

Below are just a selection.

Please consider the following if you need immediate support:  

  • Attend your local A&E department. 

  • Contact your local Mental Health Line

  • Contact the Samaritans  TEL: 116 123 (Contactable 24hours) 

  • Request an urgent appointment with your GP